Introduction
Dressing modestly means to portrait a women’s decency and priority. The problems increasing day by day among us are flooded the people’s life. Recently, we always read about the issues in the newspaper. This issues has been one of the hot issues that said by peoples. Although, many steps to prevent it there had be taken but the society still give the problem about women dressing modestly. Dressing modestly are clothes that cover body parts up to the knee. They will be many changes made if the law requires women to dress modestly.
Main Body
If the law wants to women to dress modestly, women will feel better safer when they are out in the public. Some women may not realize by dressing immodestly. Trouble such as bandits, rapes, and some unwanted male passions. All this type of trouble comes at the women who are immodestly dressed. Women feel safe because they know that by dressing modestly, they have showed towards their body. This will not be affected by the law on requiring women to dress modestly. Safety is the main reason of why women should dress modestly.
There are some others factors that affect that women dressing. The ethics are starting from home. Parents should be the role model to their children to dress up properly. Some of the parents have no time to spend with their children at home because some parents are busy with their own works at work place. Some parents are also always wear immodestly clothes at home and at public place. Parents should be the role model for their children to understand the standard of clothing since their children were small. There is no use in teaching them about those ethics when they grow up to teenagers.
The school also must play an important role in teach a students with positive ways to dress up. Teachers and some other staffs at school also should be a role model to their students. They should give a proper for their school attire. Some teachers wear mode very modestly attire when coming to school. Clothing laws vary popular around the world. In most countries, there are no laws which prescribe what clothing is required to be worn. However, the standards of clothing are set indirectly by way of those who wear something that is not socially approved by the government. Those people who wear insufficient clothing can be fined in many countries under various offences termed indecent exposure, public indecency or other descriptions. These offences do not to themselves defines what is and what is not acceptable clothing to constitute the offence and leave it to a judge to determine in each case for modestly dress.
Most clothing laws concern which parts of the body must not be exposed to view by others. Some countries have strict clothing laws, such as Islamic countries. Other countries are more tolerant of non-conventional attire and are relaxed about nudity. Many countries have different laws and customs for men and women, what may be allowed or perceived often varies by gender is in some areas specifically illegal, especially a man wearing women’s clothing. Separate laws are usually in place to regulate obscenity, which includes certain depictions of people in various states of undress, and child pornography, which may include similar photographs of children with naked.
For example, The United Arab Emirates government will post signs on their beaches saying that nudity is prohibited. There would be no fines for breaking this rule, just a warming and if necessary, ejection from the beach. The rule went into effect after locals complained about tourist sunbathing topless or completely nude and changing their clothes in public, so must respect the customs and tradition of the State. There are also signs at malls and shopping centers indicating that shoulders and knees have to be covered. Also reveling clothes are not prohibited. In case the rules are broken, they will be warned but no arrests.
Women should not dress immodestly and place themselves in any danger situation. Moreover, dressing modestly would make women feel lack of confidence to them. This is a matter which every woman should avoid from being danger. Once a woman feels confident of herself from dressing modestly, then she would have the ability to and take control over everything from their situations. Statistics have proven that 97.5 % women whom dress modestly has shown more confident over themselves compared to women’s who dress immodestly. Therefore, it is wise that the law should require women to dress modestly in order to women’s good manners. If the law requires women to dress modestly, then women would also show gratitude to the law for making women the person who they really are. Confidence is also one of the main characteristics that women should have in their daily life to protect themselves from being attack from others.
Conclusion
In the conclusion, the law should ask women to dress modestly because it would change the perspective to the community who have against women. Having the law to require women to dress modestly would make a lot of changes to a woman’s life. The government created law so that the community would be at ease, peaceful and harmony in their country. If the community is not at ease, then it will be the time for law to take action in coming out with a solution to solve the problem to dress modestly. The publics have issues on women’s dressing immodestly, and then the law should require women to dress modestly as the solution to this problem. So the law should make a wise decision by requiring women to dress modestly for theirs benefit and from being in dangerous by others. Hopes are set on the law to require women to dress modestly. The law should require women to dress modestly, instead of allowing women to destroy their own lives by dressing immodestly and also makes proud to their own country.
Introduction
In this phenomenon, we always read and heard about the divorce cases through the media and newspapers. This is a problem that should be taken into consideration due to the effects of divorce to their lives. A divorce is a legal action between married people to terminate their marriage relationship due to some problems or misunderstanding that has occurred in their lives. Nevertheless, most of the couples are unable to keep their relationship so they choose to make a divorce, which is one of the solutions to manage with problems between a husband and wife to officially divorce. Divorce is meant the separation of married couple legally in the court. There is said to be a few differences between the rates of divorce in Western countries and in local countries such as Malaysia. According to facts one out of every two marriages ends up their lives with divorce. The rates of divorce have risen significantly. Also as a serious social problem, a divorce causes numbers of effects on social lifestyles, especially on modern generation. But when the complications arise between the two marriages, they fail to solve it in simple way to understand each other. These situations lead to take the step to divorce.
Main Body
There were some factor have been identified for the main cause of divorce among two marriages in the country, among them failure by husbands and wife in discharging their responsibilities. There any many reasons that causes married couples to end up being separated or divorced. The reason why married couples end up being divorce is because lack of commitment and responsibility towards each other. At times, most of the married couples get into fight for the wrong reasons. Without communication, no relationship can be effective. Keeping secrets among couples would cause them to fight and the fight end up in separation or divorce. For example, getting married for money. They should understand each other a lot to have a peaceful life.
Most of the couples get married in a very young age without knowing each other properly and also without telling their parents also. This means that the couples are lack of individual identity, and this is also a reason why married couples end up being divorce at a young age. Most people think that if they do, like or have things in common, they thing that they belong to each other. Actually marriage is more than just having to do things in common marriage is a responsibility towards looking after each other to run a normal life.
Next, lack of communication is also one of the common causes of divorce between two marriages nowadays. These because of the women completely change in roles. In the past, men had to make money to afford the expense of family, whereas the woman would do housework. Because of these situations, it is too hard for most women to separate from their husbands. However, these situations are totally different today. The fairness between men and women in roles are very clear, women can work outside the home to earn money, while men share the household tasks such as cooking, cleaning, washing as well as caring for their own children. Women are more independent today when it comes to earning money and supporting their cost of living. So the women have no time to spend for their husbands. Because of lack communication couples are unable to resolve problems and issues that occur within the relationship and the clash can in the end cause strain on the relationship to understand each other.
Furthermore, other cause of recent rise in the rate of divorce is stress in modern living. Many people, who live in other countries, have significant pressure to earn money. For example, in Indonesia, students generally want to go celebrated universities mostly because it holds a good opportunity to find job or earn a lot of money. This situation not only happens in Indonesia, but also occurs in many countries. Some people are on unemployment, this cause a stress to occur in their family, which lead to divorce. Some families can earn money, but insufficient for covering their expenses, therefore it is easy to think about divorce. Couples frequently end up having disputes over money. In many cases one of the partners is always not happy with the spending habits of the other individual. This can result in enormous fights. That money is a contentious issue among couples can be seen from the fact that opinion polls point out as many as 90% respondents reporting fights over money. Likewise, over 34% couples indicated that money was one of the major problems. The rates of unemployment continually increase and as a result, the divorce rates rise day to day.
After divorce, the couples themselves will face problems like lack of concentration at work and on carrying out their daily lifestyle. They will start to show low performance on their work start to take more leaves and showing more tantrums at work. Slowly these couples would start to shut themselves out from the real world. They will feel more emotional disturbed than they used to be when they were married. Suddenly, they would feel like everyone is happy in the world but them. From this situation, the couple would want to take drastic move so that he or she could end the miserable feeling that they have to go through every day after their divorce. Drastic move like; taking pills, taking drugs, committing suicide. Some people after divorce would be happily living their lives as free men or women and some people would be seeing other couples.
The last but not least cause is that cultural factors. Divorce rates were already inching upwardly in the 20th century as a result of secularization trends, the liberalization of norms concerning individual choice, and the decrease of religious influence. The religious aspect is now largely missing in the institution of marriage. For many, marriage has become an individual choice rather than a covenant before God and this change has contributed to the acceptance of its temporal nature. These socio-cultural trends later came to influence the passenger of more liberal divorce laws. The trends toward individualism that began two centuries ago have resulted in an emphasis on right rather than duties. When individualism is coupled with an ideology of satisfaction, particularly sexual and psychological, where people are encouraged to be happy and fulfill, it follows that the spouses’ mentality about their marriage is affected. If the marital relationships no longer meet these needs, then spouses feel necessary in jettisoning the relationship to seek out new partners who better meet these needs. This will lead to divorce.
There are many parts in life that would be affected on a married couple’s gets divorce. If married couples gets a divorce the first part of their life would be affected is the family; especially their children’s. Divorce affects children differently depending on their age and stage of development. The children’s world, their security and what they believed on all this while seem to fall apart when their parents’ divorce. They might worry that their parents do not love them anymore. They feel like their parents have lost all the responsibilities that they have towards their children. All this might effect on the children slowly, affect them emotionally. From this children will start to show on their studies, will start to decrease their marks for exam, skip classes and not participating in any school or family activities. From this the parents would have to fight in court for the child care against their children. After the decision is made, the children would have to move back in and out among their parents.
Although, these causes of recent rise in divorce rates expressed above, there are also some implication that can reduce this problems. The couples should go through a counseling session before get into marriage life because marriage not cohabiting two individual but, two families. They should learn to manage their future problem that they might be face in future. If they fail to manage their problems, might be lead to divorce. Next, fighting in front of children should avoid because it would give huge impact for the children. Research has indicated that children belonging to high conflict homes actually fared much better after a divorce between their parents. However children belonging to low conflict homes did not fared well if the marriage ended in divorce. This perhaps because children growing up in low conflict homes did see their parents fighting and therefore a break up and consequent divorce was a huge shock to them.
After marriage, usually couples get lost in their roles and responsibilities. Married couples sometimes get bored of their marriage life and start to back out on their responsibilities towards each other and their family. Sometimes married couples use the reason being bored of each other to have an affair with others. They think that they have found happiness in another way but they do not think of the consequence towards their family for their actions. Once a couple get married, automatically their responsibilities started. Role of a wife towards the family has to take care after the children, cooking meals for the family and doing the chores at home. The role of a husband is also to take care after the children, going to work to earn money for the family and sometimes help the wife with the chores. Most marriages end up in divorce is because the couples are not committed in under doing their roles as husband and wife’s. This will affect the family terribly especially the children for being lack in the married couple’s roles and responsibilities.
Furthermore, the couples should learn to be tolerant each other. This attitude will reduce the complication between the couples and avoid them to take a step for divorce. Researcher has found that most of the couples does not tolerant each other or give up when having problems between them.
Conclusion
In the last 20 years the rates of divorce have increase rapidly. Action should be taken to prevent the divorce rate from increasing in the future. He or she should try to understand and get to know the characteristics of the other couple before trying the know before getting married. At the present, divorce has become the large problem because of changing women’s roles, stress in modern living and lack of communication. This is to prevent misunderstanding among the couples that would end up in divorce. Married couples should be more committed to each other to run their lives, the role of husband and wife as it should be. Responsibilities towards the family should be carried out every day without give up. Family and children should be the main priority for every married couple. So neglecting them would just end up in divorce. Besides that, married couples should be financially stable, so that they can provide the necessary household items. In order to be financially stable, married couples should have the suitable job for it. So try working in a job that could support the family needs. Married couples should take the necessary precautions to stay happily married and also to avoid from getting a divorce and being separated from each other. There are also the two different ways in effects, which are negative and positive effects. Some couples, which have no children, divorce by permission, therefore divorce should be good solution for couple to deal with this problem